Stand And Deliver Sex Position. How to do it: In this classic position, the receiving partner bends at the waist so the penetrating partner can enter them from behind, while in a standing position.
If the front partner has good balance and is interested in power play, the partner from behind might use their hands to hold the front partner’s wrist behind their back, like they’re being handcuffed. Another option is for the back partner to “reach around and place hands on [the receiver’s] upper thighs, right where the pelvis is, and use [their] legs for leverage,” says Parks. This quick swap will make things more comfortable and will allow the receiver to stand upright, too, once the blood starts rushing to their head, she says.
Why it’s hot: This version screams “gotta have you now,” heat-of-the-moment passion, and the angle offers even deeper penetration, says Stubbs. Plus, the bent-over positions, gives the penetrating partner a good look at their lover’s back, hips, neck, and more. For visual “learners,” the steaminess of this sight can’t be overstated.
Make it hotter: If your shower is decked out with shower sex-friendly accouterments like a no-slip mat and a handrail, you can make things even steamier (literally) by taking this position to the shower. Just remember: Water usually washes away body-made wetness, so you’d be wise to add in a resilient store-bought lubricant like Uberlube or Coconu’s oil-based lube.
